Hi, I like to read the posts about dry mouth, small aches and pains , Peg tube feedings, because , besides giving good information, these are things we have CONTROL of, we can get drug store products, use liquids better, get pain meds, once you get past the idea of the tube, get all the liquids and nutrition you need to get built back up again. Even the emotional side you can make things better maybe just by venting. We can control all of this Cancer is not as easy, it takes things out of our hands. Packer 66 and Rosie , I pray for you every day. Brian, don't try to take the world on your shoulders, set back and say to yourself "This is a great thing I have done here to have a forum where people who have suffered from the same type of Cancer can talk to each other, help each other and maybe find a way to make their day easier" It is good to know you are not alone with the problems with this disease. It takes one day at a time, and each day a small problem may seem very big.