Rosie, you most certainly did not offend me, and I cannot imagine that anyone who has followed Heather's story could fault you in any way. You are a remarkable woman and have the strength and committment of an entire group of average people. Your frustration and pain come through so clearly and I wish with all my heart I could help you and your daughter. Life is not fair, but sometimes it is more unfair than usual, and Heather is a case in point. There is no answer to "why" she has been put in such a terrible position, which does not keep us from asking the question. I hope it helps just a little bit to know that I and many others think of you often and send prayers and/or good thoughts your way.
Joanna