Didn't mean to sound so harsh....if I could have spoken the comment instead of posting it to a message board, you would have heard less in my voice than what you read as typed words. No matter at what level of issues we are all left with, you can always tell a winner by how well they play the hand they are dealt. I am always inspired by how some who have much greater issues than I, deal everyday with things and go on with their lives. Dealing with these kind of "heros' everyday, keeps my own complaints in check. And believe me, that comes form the king of the whiners....

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.