Amy, you are being to modest, it sounds like you have been thru a ton.I used to enjoy a beer myself watching my wife mow the lawn, haven't had one in about 9 yrs but still enjoy watching her mow the lawn.
Amy I can,t help but think of how many times where I have heard of stories like yours where you are assured that it's nothing only to turn up cancer. Most doctors are competent good people and I wonder the opposite,-- if they said they thought it was cancer and came back negative we would be angry for days of needless worrying. Why Don't they just say I don't know let's wait for the results.
Truly wishing you the best!
Mark D.