Chris, 
Thank you for you thoughts and support.  I guess if one has to have cancer, living 60 miles from the Mayo clinic is a pretty good luck.  
After reading so many of the posts on here, I feel a little foolish even worrying about this.  My problem seems so small compared to most.  After my surgery, I will likely not need further treatment, less than a 10% chance they tell me.  Of course I am thrilled with that news, but it is still a scary road, none-the-less.  At this point, I am stressing about waking up after surgery with part of my mouth gone.  It's just teeth and jaw bone afterall, I should be able to function just fine, I am told.  But still, the thought of it all is making me crazy.  Not as crazy as the not knowing part.  The week I spent waiting for test results to find out if this had spread anywhere was the very longest, most painful week of my life.  
I have not lost my sense of humor, and I don't intend to.  That's what I am banking on to get me through.  That and the support of good people like you.
Where is Madison Lake?  I am drawing a blank.
Amy