Hi Jennie and Erik,
I had a PEG tube for quite almost a year and it took me more then a few weeks to adjust to it. I got very sick to my stomach at first, when they were using the jevity. We switched and I started using a generic Walgreen brand that settled well on my stomach. I used a syringe, not the hanging bag, and I didn't dilute my feedings with water. I got so comfortable with the feedings that I would do them anytime, anywhere. My 5 year old grandaughter even learned how to do it and thought it was a GREAT game to "feed" Nana.
I'm 44 and had the left side of my lower jaw removed due to a stage IV tumor, along with removal of the lymphnodes on the same side. I then did 6 weeks of radiation. My surgery was extensive and I had drains, tubes and TONS of staples and stitches in my face and neck. The swelling was dramatic along my jawline and neck and it took about a year or so for it to all go away. Now my neck is as smooth as it as before.
Keep Erik on this site as much as you can, this site is what brought me back from a deep depression following my treatment. The information can be scary at times but more often the support is what we need.
One day at a time for both of you. I promise you that it will get better.
Love,
Minnie