Jennie
I wanted to send my good wishes to you and your family. You have a tough road ahead.
Nelie is right,I found making a family friend the "designated buffer" for all well wishes and health updates to be of great help.
It gets tiring to have to try and explain what is happening to a multitude of callers, and you need all your energy for Erik and the kids.
I am so glad you found this site early , I can honestly say these guys saved my sanity.

Our best wishes to you guys
Marica