Thank you, all. I keep reminding myself that everyone is different and this does take time. Maria, I actually did think of thrush one evening because he started complaining of a new burning pain in his mouth. I peeked in and sure enough, white patches on his tongue and a spot on the back of his throat. The chemo onc. put him on Nystatin and Flucon. This was the first time he's had thrush. Hope it doesn't hang out in there!

Tomorrow is 4 weeks post tx and not much is changing. Although, his voice is suddenly getting stronger and starting to sound more like himself. The swallowing is still a no go and the mucous is not letting up.

Thanks again for all advice and experiences you all have shared. It makes me feel not so alone. You guys are really wonderful.

Carol