I got snapped at too. We understand, trust me. We cry in the shower....since we are sharing secrets..You are in this together. Sounds like she is rocking the care giver job and you are handling things as they come the best you can and that is all anyone can do.
Good luck tomorrow. Buckle up for the next week. Will be thinking about you. Write when you can!!
Kathy

Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14