Lori,

It's never insignificant when something like this happens. I heard a joke once that went "what's the difference between major and minor surgery? Major is when it happens to you." Friends and family may move on and think of it as a distant memory, but it in no way diminishes what you have gone through. It seems like everyone has already given you great advice. This is a process for sure and all of what you are experiencing is normal. I do hope that it gets easier as you have more time to process everything that you have been through.

Good luck with everything!