I agree with you Mama. Save the rah, rah. If attitude matters that much, few of us would get cancer, could cure themselves by just wishing cancer away nor would we die, especially at young ages. It's our genes that matters, health care, diet, lifestyle, luck, karma, depending on ones beliefs. Hope, and doing the best you can, may be different. My doctor said I'm like a cat with nine lives, and I hope it's 10.