Im very sorry to read about your husbands negative reaction towards all of this. He has been thru alot and has every right to be angry and frustrated. But.... not directing this towards you. I would make an appointment ASAP for him with a therapist who is familiar with working with cancer patients. If I were you I would also seek out a therapist for you as well. They can give you tips on how to better handle yourself with your husband. Im very sorry he is being so awful towards you, try your very best not to take it personally. Think of it like its only the cancer talking. Caregivers to me are like angels, they are the best.... never forget that!!!


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Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile