Hi Apappala, very sorry to hear you and your husband have been going through all of this. But you are at the right place for support! I too had a husband that I would describe as Dr Jekkle and Mr Hyde. He would glare at me with eyes that could just bring me to my knees.. There was nothing I could say or do that was right.So I know what your going through. Please feel free to personal message me .it is not an easy road for either of you. In time it will get better. In the mean time make sure your staying in close contact with his docs for adjustments as needed on his medications,and make sure your taking care of yourself.