i am sure you hear this often, however, there is no way that everyone who wrote can understand how much i want to thank you all... let me say i am just beginning to learn computers etc. and my daughters run circles around me, but they should...

yesterday we went to brimfield, for those of you who like atiques this is the event.... it is not an easy job, but jim (my chemo brained husband) thought he could handle it, he did fine but it was not easy, he got angry for really no apparent reason, he asked me a question and i didn't reply quickly enough i guess and off he went i was shocked and for whatever reason thought i should defend myself, wrong--- but today is another day... and i went on line thinking maybe i could find some sort of quiz that i could give him to help him see he is not normal and maybe he should try to work on that part of his brain that the treatment damaged... i thing the treatment damamged me... he is fine today (not exactly fine) he went to the store and fell up the curb into the doorway of the stop and shop (a large grocery chain here in ma) and when asked if he was ok he of course said sure... in a way thank god for chemo brain, ordinarily this would have been devastating not now... oh and by the way i was not there... thank goodness... i would have been accused of trying to be his mother... again


thank you everyone