Hi Emilie

I'm new as well, 40 y/o and diagnosed with Stage 4 Oral Cancer. My Cancer started out as a sore on my tongue. Developed into a bigger spot and once biopsied - (+) Cancer. i had my surgery, which was interesting, I thought it would be a few small incisions but it ended up with 2 large incisions and drain. After surgery it was decided that because 3/20 nodes were positive = Chemo/Radiation. Just completed my first week of 7, not bad. Just developed a lump near my jaw which I understand could be drainage from lack of lymph nodes. Otherwise, you stay strong and keep your head up. My Mom was going through Cancer when I was 21, your son will be there. Sons LOVE THEIR MOM. I am sure he loves you, especially through all your sacrifice.
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Ron