Thxs to Christine for helping me with the "my Stuff" at the bottom. It is kind of scrambled but at least it helps I think. I'm 65 now not at the time of the dx of throat cancer. The flan does sound good and I will try that next time I go to a mexican restaurtant rather than try and fine something that doesn't burn. I used to love cheesecake but it is the consistency of the cream cheese I guess that doesn't go well now. Who knows but I get enough to keep me going and that is what counts. I'm also going to look up that recipe for the flan. Sounds great. Thanx to everyone for all the suggestions. I'm finding this so helpful and interesting wish I'd know about this a long time ago.