Wendy

I'm guessing you got a disturbing private message? I can empathize, having been on the receiving end of very hostile PMs.
Even someone like myself (who made their living dealing with unreasonable people by showing them just what unreasonable really is) does not like them. Exuberance and/or adjectival hyperbole gets misunderstood as somehow putting down others who did it differently. Why let yourself be driven off OCF? You can just delete PMs without reading them if the sender upsets you.
Charm