Wendy, I am so glad to hear Steve is doing so well. I have been following along but usually dont post. It was a very long road for you both. I think it is very inspirational when members stick with OCF and post encouraging updates and anniversaries. It shows others that there is an end of the misery and life can return to almost normal again. Sure we all have our own after effects to deal with, some more than others. Its something we all need to adjust to and learn to live with, thats our new normal.

I hope you know that if someone is upset by Steve's successes then it is not anything to do with you or Steve. It is sad that their spouse has not recovered better, hopefully they will still get better. I really hope we have not seen the last of you and Steve!!! OCF is for everyone. Sometimes messages are misinterpreted when reading it written instead of hearing someone voice speaking the words. Im not aware of any admin being notified about anything disturbing in any of your posts. I have never seen anything even questionable about any posts you have written. The only thing I see disturbing in your posts is the very last one saying you wont be on OCF anymore. Hope you change your mind!