Thanks ladies. Steve had his ears tested yesterday by the hbo doctor and all appears ok but not really something we will know until he starts doing his dives. They did discuss possible ear issues as a side effect of the treatment. Luckily for me I have all of you wonderful guys who I have learnt so much from that I have a head start on things when they start talking about them.
Christine I'm with you on the hoping he heals and we can put this behind us. His jaw issue has been dragging on for so long now it will be very nice if it mends well. Good for him because I know the never ending round of doctor's appointments get him down (as they do for all of us). I'll keep you all posted with his progress.
Gabe - now I know what grommets are

have heard of them but never knew what they were until now lol.
Love to you all xxx