Rachael,
Sorry to hear that your moms situation is not good. It brings tears to my eyes to hear this.

As others have said We never really know when our time is up.

The biggest gift you all can give her is to continue to show the love and if possible go have fun times with her. Those will be the memories you will keep forever. Make the last days the best days so to speak.

Take care


2004 SCC R.tip 1/4 tongue Oct. 2005 R. Neck SCC cancer/Chemo Cisplatin 2x/8wks. Rad. Removed Jugular vein, Lymph gland & some neck muscle. TX finished 1/20/06... B.Cancer 3/29/07 Finished 6/07 Bi-op 7/15/09 SCC in-situ, laser surgery removed from 1st. sight. Right jaw replacement 11/3/14. 9 yrs cancer free as of Jan. 2015