Rachael,

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I wish I had some good advice but I can offer an ear and support. It must be so much hard for you not being able to see her. I would assume it's easier for her to not see her children...I'm sure she knows how sad you are. I do hope you get to spend time with her and talk to make some memories together.

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)