Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Rachael, I am very sorry to read about your mom. Im sure you are devastated. As a mother, I think your mom loves you so much that she doesnt want to trouble you by seeing her sick. She probably wants you to remember her as the person she used to be before she was sick. It must be a terrible time for everyone in your family. I can just imagine what is going thru your mother's head right now. She must be suffering so much. Hopefully she moves past this phase quickly and allows you to be close with her again soon. Prayers to everyone involved. ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive |