Thanks Anne-Marie...I also have printed out things I have read which I think may help Jo and I am sure as she progresses and comes to terms with today's news she will feel more able to become involved - I really do hope she will as like yourself I am always trying to get across to her how this forum would be such a good place for her to be and also perhaps her contribution will be of help to someone. I hope your son is doing well love and all the best

Kathie