So so sorry to hear this.

Could it be that he is just lashing out? Or even trying to retreat to his cave to save you further heartache? So difficult to try to determine how to support you when we really don't know what has been going on in the background ... Hope the above comments aren't too naive or offensive

Karen
Love of Life to Alex T4N2M0 SCC Tonsil, BOT, R lymph nodes
Dx March 2010 51yrs. Unresectable. HPV+ve
Tx Chemo x 3+1 cycles(cisplatin,docetaxel,5FU)- complete May 31
Chemoradiation (IMRTx35 + weekly cisplatin)
Finish Aug 27
Return to work 2 years on
3 years out Aug 27 2013 NED smile
Still underweight