Anne-Marie & Karenj,

Thank you both for those kind words. Karenj,Bob has also shut down emotionally. I was so shocked when he held me and said don't cry. It was the first time I felt like he cared in quite a few months. It is funny to think that the falling of a mirror could make me feel like Bob cares. I know Bob is a hard man,with a soft side for me. I told him you don't have to be nice to anyone, but you will be kind to me. Can't wait for the healing to really start.


Deb



Deb taking care of Bob, left retromolar tirgone&alveolar ridge SCC stage IV pT4anomx
11/3/10 partial mandiblctmy,trech,chest flap
11/9/10 Trech out, PEG in
1/19/11- 3/9/11 Cisplatin x3, IMRT x33