Deb - Having someone you love hold you, when it's been a long time since it happened is a good thing. A really, really good thing. And having a good cry is good, too. It helps to wash away some of the pent up stress that caregivers have a way of holding inside until some more opportune time which never seems to come. I'm glad you vented and that you came here. So, I would say that mirror that fell off the wall, did it at just the right time. Kudos to the mirror. And give Bob a hug, for being there and holding you at just the right time. Your are right, - You will be fine.