Wow, where do I begin...No surgeon will ever just take out a little bit of tissue based on the recommendation of his/her patient. It is the surgeon's duty to do whatever it takes to ensure the best outcome. If you refuse radiation, your chances of the cancer recurring are very high and the cancer can be more difficult to treat. You want the best treatment for your cancer that you can get. Do whatever it takes, surgery, chemo, radiation. The Radiation Oncologist works with a team of physicists who will determine what you should get and where it will be directed.

You are not alone. There are many here who have been through the same treatment. You may have to make adjustments in your life to accommodate the changes your will undoubtedly experience. There is life after oral cancer. And, my husband and I are living our best days now. Good Luck!