Paula, Honey I'm so very sorry. You are a most wonderful wife and caregiver. Yours is one of the most hardest fought battles I have ever known of. No matter how much you think you are prepared-you aren't. Hold his hand, tell him you love him and know he is going to a better place.

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.