Well, I went on TV to do a story about my HPV+ disease and of course the subject of my wife and our sex life came up - on national TV- and when I got home she was convinced, since we had never discussed how this came about that she had given it to me. It took a couple of years of reading articles about the virus, before she finally believed that I could have been the one that brought it into our relationship... and idea I wanted her to embrace. Both of us had multiple sex partners before our marriage. But the truth is there is no way to know, and the past is the past. There is only today, and we all hope for a tomorrow. But tomorrow is guaranteed to no one.


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.