So sorry to hear your sad news, Paula - My heart goes out to you and my tears are falling along with yours. Please call on the comfort and strength of friends and family, and know that we are all sending you hugs and wishing you and and your husband some peaceful moments to soothe the hurt.

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)