Also I wanted to say that I know how you feel when you post something after a long tough day only to see negative or insensitive responses ..... its pretty deflating. This has happened to me a few times on here too. Sometimes I think people tend to forget how intensely scary this all is right when you are going through it.... something we should all keep in mind.
Anyway- I do hope you know we are her for you. I'm thinking of you and hoping your mom can get started on medication soon.
K