Hi there, thanks. I definitely appreciate peoples advice that have dealt with oral cancer, whether it good or bad (i know how to ignore bad advice). The way he said it was very rude, I felt. This drug therapy we're doing is her only chance of survival so for someone to poke fun at it really pisses me off. Theres a right way and a wrong way to say something. Especially if you've dealt with cancer yourself, youd think how to be a little more sensitive to someone during certain situations.