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Joined: May 2008 Posts: 551 | E-dog,
Does your treatment center have a counselor or therapist that you and/or your wife can talk to? You might not be able to get your wife to go, but it could be helpful to you. I went through treatment with my Mom as caregiver, so the dynamic was totally different, but I do know from talking to other patients, that major illness can be a huge source of problems in any relationship.
- Margaret
Stage IV SCC lt lateral tongue, surgery 5/19/08 (partial gloss/upper neck dissection left side/radial free flap reconstruction) IMRT w/weekly Cisplatin & Erbitux 6/30/08, PEG 1 6/12/08 - out 7/14 (in abdominal wall, not stomach), PEG 2 7/23/08 - out 11/20/08, Tx done 8/18/08
Second SCC tumor, Stage 1, rt mobile tongue, removed 10/18/2016, right neck dissection 12/9/2016
Third SCC tumor, diagnosed, 4/19/2108, rt submandibular mass, HPV-, IMRT w/ weekly Cisplatin, 5/9 - 6/25/2018, PEG 3 5/31/2018
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