Eric

So sorry to hear about your sister. Depression is also a terrible disease, in many ways worse than Cancer since no one expects you to just "cheer up" to cure cancer.
The subject line of your post evokes this year's Bob Dylan album's (Together Through Life) final track: It's All Good
[quote]
Brick by brick, they tear you down.
A teacup of water is enough to drown.
You oughta know, if they could, they would
Whatever goin' down, it's all good.[/quote]
The rest of the song has that same ironic quality that seems fitting. I lost my younger brother over 22 years ago and still miss him terribly. There are no words I know to comfort you.
Charm