True words were never spoken Donna. Do you remember the song. THe Pretender ?? That had to be written for all of us. THe same as the one" Pretend You're Happy When You're Blue" Have a great day all.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here