Charm, As usual it's funny how much we think alike. I still tell new cancer patients that the only thing they can control is their attitude and nutrition...the rest is up to how their body is going to respond to treatment and their team of dr.'s. Where I don't believe that a good attitude helps the outcome of treatment or recurrance it does help those around you cope with the situation. In a way, you have to be strong for the people you love. That's my take on it and definetly not the rule or worth anything then what it is..

David, I've been in hospitality most of my adult career. I managed a national award winning hotel (for customer service, quality assurance, guest satisfaction) while managing two other hotels and consulting on a third. I totally agree on your point and in no way took offense. Finding an employee that gave a sh!t was a difficult thing.