I love this topic..thank you Sara. The thing is...we are going to have both. We are going to be angry, which is natural and important. On the other hand, life is too short to be pissed off all the time. We know being mad is not going to help anything. And yes, I get sick and tired of people saying "you will be fine" "just think positivve" but when I'm alone with my thoughts I am grateful for my life. Yes, it's been harder than I would like, but I appreciate my life more than other people my age.

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)