Tom, this is a very difficult decision to make. I love my dogs very much and take great pleasure in having them. My dogs are my companions and follow me from room to room. I talk to them all the time, they make me laugh. On the other hand, they require alot of work. Its not going to be easy but I must give them up since I know very soon I wont be the owner they deserve. This breaks my heart more than most people could understand.

In your situation, it would be very difficult to have another dog. Your wife would get attached to it. It would take alot of her strength but also bring her much comfort and joy. The big picture is her health is the most important thing here. I dont know what to say to her about not getting another dog. I do agree with your reasoning. When she starts not feelign well, she cant take care of the dog and you will need to take care of her.

I wish you the best of luck with everything you both are going thru.