Thanks Cheryl, you are wise and your precise words read peace and meaningfulness to me every time you send them. I know what you say mirrors what you went through, so... mostly appreciated. Thank you!
Yes, you are right, they are doing sth, let's not sugar coat it, we are running late, but that's what it is, and at least I tried very hard to have things move.
BTW, can you just imagine this is not even a cancer center (but that's the University team - they are reknowned surgeons, I guess they can handle this)?
Sending best and promise to stay focused on good feelings rather than on anger (btw, I even danced today in a moment of lightness)