Makes me wanna give them all a huge kick in the arse! They don't even bother to call and check on him or come and visit. I am thoroughly disgusted by the whole lot of them! Then there are my 3 kids....my daughter is basically banned from being around as we have been raising her kids for the past two years (another whole story there) and even she calls occasionally to check but the two boys have stepped right up and watched kids, plowed us out in the winter, etc. 'course they've been down this road before with some of our other family members and cancer - not oral but cancer and it's horrors all the same. What a shock this will be for them when his kids finally show up.