Thanks everyone for the feedback! I guess it really varies in how the delivery is made, and for the delivery to be received! My heart just breaks every time I think of those dealing with these issues. If, and it's a big if, I get bad news, I think I fear telling my children the most. They are already dealing with a ton with Dad gone! But, there's still time between now and then....and now, I'm just keeping them as busy as I can with their soccer passion. smile

Thanks again, this is so helpful!

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