Elin,
I am hoping that you and your husband come through this with "flying colors." This is a long and life altering journey but it is endurable. You will find that even if we have not all had the same experiences we live in the same community. Ask any question and you will find the answer here or be directed to it.
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Malka

SCC stage II Partial mandibulectomy w. neck dissection- July 2005. Renal cancer w. partial nephrectomy-Jan 2004. Breast cancer discovered in routine mammogram. Successful lumpectomy, sentinal nodes clear, RT only-2008 Reconstruction of mandible w fibula free flap-Jan 09. TORS removal of begnin pappiloma from esophagus-2010. Masectomy,rt breast 2013.
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