Amy and David, sometimes one doc/opinion is enough. I presented with an ugly tumor in my mouth and shortly thereafter a huge lymph node. It made perfect sense to me to get both out as soon as possible. I also checked out the doc's credentials, training, and experience, spoke to a couple of his patients, and was satisfied. I agree completely that the more educated opinions the better, but I am just concerned that when there is a situation where second or third opinions are not available, we might be sending the message that the treatment will therefore be inferior, which is not necessarily the case.

Not trying to start anything here, just presenting an alternate view.