Cray, you mention grown children. Why not call them together and tell them exaclty what you put in that post. Either that or get them to read the post. You need a break and I don't mean break down. If your kids won't help, maybe you have a friend or your hubby does that will help you out and give you a break once in awhile. Go for it Mam and good luck. If I was closer, I would volunteer, I know you have heard the blind taking care of the blind. LOL That's what it would be.