Hi Cray,

I am new here - just registered today. I wish I had words of wisdom to offer, but I am in a simular position and was going to post about it here, when I read your post. {{{Cray}}}

Kendall

Wife and caregiver to David, diagnosed with squamous cell cancer/Stage 4 5/08. Primary on left tonsil stub, spread to left neck lymph nodes. 38 IMRT/3 cisplatin completed on 7/31/08.