Perhaps 'strong encouragement' is better than 'bullying'. My caregiver tracked daily calories and fluids and always had strong, perhaps even stern, encouragement. I will be forever grateful for that.
New posters--I don't mind if they post asking questions that have already been answered. I think it makes them feel less 'alone' to be able to put their questions out there and have one of us answer back qiuckly and warmly.