Liz(Cookey),

Since I was the one using the word "crutch," I want to clarify my position on the PEG tube. I definitely don't consider it a crutch at two weeks post treatment - it was a godsend and a very welcome asset to Bill's overall outcome.

I merely meant that long term, for some, without hunger, it would be easy to just use the tube and not eat.

So....don't include me in the "lot"....I am a PEG advocate and I believe in being an involved and yes tough caregiver and that this can be achieved without being a bully. I think, if you asked my hubby today, he would say that he never felt bullied or stressed by my attention to all details of his care.

Deb