I sure understand where you are coming from. Been there and still doing it. If I had a magic wand I would wave your fears away . Vent here if you can't talk to your hubby and we will read the vent and answer. I try to keep busy all day and evening, when I'm not here reading posts. Good luck with your dr tomorrow


Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here