Linda you sound like a real doll! I can't believe I have found so much info and good karma here! As far as my guy thing, its called a tongue! and I thought I was doing everything fine! I am not that wild (I wish!). I was poking around on this website and I found out that they are doing research on the HPV vacine for men and throat cancer patients that are cancer free after treatment. I want to get involved, I think that is why and how I got here! By the way I not really shy!