I was so sorry to read your post .
I know you both must be scared out of your wits by this latest news. However, Bellarte is right this is ABSOLUTELY not a death sentence.
I won`t tell you not to worry , that would be impossible but, do try and fill your time until the results come in with something that brings joy and comfort to both of you.
Lots of positive vibes coming your way.
Marica

Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!